How My Cupid Dates works
Create a profile, look around, and start a conversation when you are ready. The free membership is enough to begin; VIP is there if you want more.
Daily suggestions that use what you tell us
Suggestions take into account age range, gender and who you are looking for, distance, how recently people have been active, the kind of relationship you want (including friendship), lifestyle habits such as drinking and smoking, interests and hobbies, and beliefs and values. You can also search, and you decide who you write to.
What you can do
A full profile
Photos, a short introduction, and the kind of relationship you want.
Daily matches
A short list of people who fit what you are looking for.
Messages
A free daily allowance, unlimited on VIP. Stuck for words? Try these first message examples.
Spaces, polls and the Activity Feed
A way to be around the community without sending a private message straight away.
Photo-ID badge
Free ID verification, or a profile check by the team with no documents needed.
Search
Free search is limited; VIP adds advanced filters, including city and distance.
Membership levels
| Feature | Classic (free) | VIP | VIP+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Create an account, browse profiles, daily match suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Limited daily messages | Yes | Unrestricted | Unrestricted |
| Read and reply to VIP and VIP+ messages | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Free ID verification and badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive chat room, private group chats (up to 50) | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you; rewind swipes | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches; priority message and like placement | No | No | Yes |
| Top of the match stack; boosted visibility and Super Match add-ons | No | No | Yes |
Features can change, and not every feature is available on every site. See prices for the full list and the official plan wording.
Common questions
Can free members reply?
Yes. Free members can read and reply to messages from VIP and VIP+ members, within the free daily allowance.
Do I need VIP to start?
No. Join free, look around, and upgrade only if you want to.