Over 50s Dating: Find Love with Over 50s Singles

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Dating after 50 is its own thing, and it should be. This part of My Cupid Dates is for single men and women over 50 who want good conversation, someone to share plans with, and maybe love, without anyone hurrying them.

Dating after 50, at your own pace

You might be coming back to dating after a long marriage, after years of being happily single, or simply because the people you meet day to day are already spoken for. Whatever brings you here, the idea is the same: a calm place to meet people at a similar stage of life, and to take things one conversation at a time.

You decide who you would like to hear from. Daily suggestions take account of the age range you set, who you are looking for, how far away people are and the kind of relationship you want, including friendship. Search is there too, and you choose who you write to.

How it works

  1. Make your profile

    Pick a username, add a photo or two, and say in your own words what you enjoy and who you hope to meet.

  2. Set the ages you want

    Choose the age range you would like to meet, so suggestions start with people near your own stage of life.

  3. Say hello

    Write first, or wait to be written to. A short, friendly message about something in their profile is plenty.

  4. Meet when you both feel ready

    Take the conversation off the site only when you both want to, and make the first meeting somewhere public and easy.

Members over 50

Profiles you see here are real members. A block may show only a few people, and gaps are never filled in.

What makes it easier

Good first dates after 50

A coffee, a walk somewhere busy or lunch in a place you both know is plenty for a first meeting. Tell a friend where you are going, make your own way there, and keep it short enough that leaving is easy if it is not right.

Our guides cover first date tips, meeting safely and online dating scams, including the warning signs to watch for when someone asks for money. There is more on safety and how My Cupid Dates works.

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Quick questions

Who is the over 50s section for?

Single men and women aged 50 and over who would like to meet people of a similar age, for love, companionship or friendship. You choose the age range you want to meet.

I have not dated for years. Where do I start?

Start small. Fill in your profile, read a few others, and send a short message when someone interests you. There is no deadline, and you can stay on the site for as long as you need before meeting anyone.

Is my profile private?

Other members see your username, your photos and your nearest town or city. Your real name, your email address and your home address are never shown.

How do I stay safe?

Keep early chats on the site, never send money to someone you have not met, and meet somewhere public the first time. If anyone worries you, block and report them from their profile.